So, we recently went to Colorado to see the kids...what a trip! To say the least, the entire 10 days we were there ...we got 4 hours a day with the kids (After we were there for 2 days, with 2 days off in between visits!).
PLEASE HELP ME UNDERSTAND!...when the kids saw my husband they cried their little eyes out and wouldn't let him go! This all happened in front of the ex-wife(evil has a first name..its DEE, and her husband AKA: What a Joke.) Still they kept up their antics and power trips the entire time...we singed a contract, and it stated that if the kids wanted to spend the night she would allow it, and if they asked to come home we would allow that as well...needless to say we didn't have to keep our end of the deal, the kids didn't want to leave, however...she would allow only one overnight!
Why can't people get a divorce and just end it their? Why can't they understand that kids need both parents and they aren't pawns in a chess game!?
My EX-husband (and his evil ways) and I got a divorce, but I took my free tickets for airfare and gave them all to my kids to travel and see their dad...even though I hated his guts!...this went on for 4 years 3 times a year!
Since we left, the kids have called EVERYDAY and now realize that their mom has lied the entire time, and that my husband is a great dad that loves them both very much...but yet we have to go to court and fight to see them on a regular schedule until we move to Colorado. She has delayed these hearings since November! Coming up to the middle of February still have to wait until March! We did not choose to spend thousands of dollars on a lawyer...we don't need it, my husband has a right to have a relationship with his kids! She however got one to rake him over the coals..because she is guilty of keeping them from him all around the board! We provided 13 or more emails from her "what a joke" husband belittling my husband, telling him to give up the kids, that he is a deadbeat dad, that the kids call him Matt, not dad, that they don't want anything to do with him, ect ect...and her lawyer petitioned the court to throw them out because it was detrimental to her character and her evil husband. NO SHIT SHERLOCK HOLMES! BUT! Thats our proof of just the small amount of crap we take from them everyday! We even warned them that we would use them in court...he still emailed...oh well! Shoot your nose off to despite your face! Their power trip is about to abruptly end! The kids know the truth and LOVE their dad to pieces, the lies they have told have back fired because the oldest child is mad! He is mad that he was lied to, that they degraded his dad, that every year that went by without seeing my husband is time he could of had!
DIVORCED PARENTS LISTEN UP! DIVORCE YOUR HUSBAND BUT DON'T USE YOUR KIDS TO GET EVEN!
Just a little history, my husand spent 2 years in country for his deployment, one of which she refused any phone calls, so my husband left without saying he loved the kids, and her "joke of a husband" told my husband that his wished he died over there.
She has full custody, and the agreement was that Matt and her would verbally agree on visitation...that all changed because they decided they didn't want him in their life for whatever evil reason...she shut her own family out as well...having her parents die without having a relationship with their grandkids.
We have filed paper upon paper and the Colorado courts still refuse to act on behalf of the kids best interest, but will act when her lawyer says anything...of course they go hand in hand..I have yet to find an honest judge or lawyer..hopefully they are out there! We have had 2 welfare visits because the step parent started screaming at my husbands son, and the phone went dead, and the other because they refused his calls for 2 months! My husband and I sent 2 huge boxes of gifts for Christmas and we stated we wanted to be on the phone when they opened them..well we got a call AFTER they were all opened...their "joke of human" (moms husband)told them both to hurry up because the child they created didn't understand why he didnt have gifts...UM SO WHAT, the child is 4, and is a screaming hellion on wheels...he needs discipline the the kind you hand out your step-children! Maybe he wouldn't be such a brat if you actually taught him some manners...Matt's kids come second now that they have their own child together!
Did I mention her own grandfather called child welfare on her..yeah...that would be number 3! Or the time that Matt's son mentioned he wanted to live with us...his JOKE of a step father told him to get the sony handheld game we got him and meet him in the garage...smashed the game and told him to take all his clothes off...as he stood there in his underwear, the JOKE of a step father said "I bought the clothes on your back, your father does nothing!" (my husband pays over a 1,000 a month papers available upon request) and proceeded to degrade the child while badmouthing his own father...that will be brought up in court!
So you see, divorce at its nastiest! totally uncalled for...and Karma...it is a bitch!
So we are still fighting ...and always will...the poor kids are in a household where the parents do NOTHING...the kids do all the cooking, cleaning, and whatever else needs to be done! "child labor where are you!?" Don't get me wrong ...kids need chores, but there is a line where chores shouldn't become built in maid...pray for these kids if you wish...and all the dads out there getting the shaft!
UGHHHHHH BLOG OF THE DAY!
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